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Must Read of the Day: A Poem About Rape Jokes

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Must Read of the Day: A Poem About Rape Jokes

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We’ve spent a lot of time talking about rape jokes in the past year or so. You would think that pretty much everything that could be said on the matter would’ve been said by now, but Patricia Lockwood’s poem at The Awl today sheds some brilliant light on the subject. Consider a small excerpt below, then read the whole thing here. Trust me, it’s well worth it.

Rape Joke

The rape joke is that you were 19 years old.

The rape joke is that he was your boyfriend.

The rape joke it wore a goatee. A goatee.

Imagine the rape joke looking in the mirror, perfectly reflecting back itself, and grooming itself to look more like a rape joke. “Ahhhh,” it thinks. “Yes. A goatee.”

No offense.

The rape joke is that he was seven years older. The rape joke is that you had known him for years, since you were too young to be interesting to him. You liked that use of the word interesting, as if you were a piece of knowledge that someone could be desperate to acquire, to assimilate, and to spit back out in different form through his goateed mouth.

Then suddenly you were older, but not very old at all.

The rape joke is that you had been drinking wine coolers. Wine coolers! Who drinks wine coolers? People who get raped, according to the rape joke.